Estella "Mickey" May Cruse Obituary (1921

Memorial Talk for Estella "Mickey" Cruz We gather today to celebrate the long and beautiful life of Estella May Cruz, known to all who loved her as Mickey. Mickey was born on May 1st, 1921, in Fontana, California, and passed away peacefully on September 1st, 2025, in Oakdale, at the remarkable age of 104 years old. She now joins her beloved husband, Mel, whom she married on July 4th, 1939--a love and partnership that lasted a lifetime and left a lasting legacy in their family. Together, Mickey and Mel raised three children, who went on to give them six grandchildren, sixteen great-grandchildren, and two great-great-grandchildren. Truly, her life's love continues on in every generation that follows her. Many people have asked where the name Mickey came from. In high school, Mickey's parents gave her all sorts of Mickey Mouse items--more than anyone else around. She became known for it, and before long, everyone simply started calling her "Mickey." One of her most treasured possessions was her special Mickey Mouse watch, a keepsake that symbolized the fun-loving spirit behind her nickname. Mickey lived a bold and adventurous life. In the early 1970s, she earned her pilot's license--something almost unheard of for women at the time. She flew a 210 Cessna with retractable gear that cruised at 200 miles per hour, an incredible accomplishment that showed her courage and determination. She was also one of the first people to ever water ski on Woodward Reservoir. With her husband Mel at her side, who had built the boat and even made the skis himself, they created memories and set traditions that would inspire stories for generations. Mickey had many passions. She was an avid bowler, often three days a week. She loved to square dance, always bringing her joy and laughter to the floor. And she loved to sing--so much so that if you sang just the first two notes of a song, Mickey could carry the tune the rest of the way, remembering every word. Her creativity shone in her work as well. After selling home interiors, she and her daughter Anne opened Mickey's Gift Shop, which became a warm and welcoming place for others to enjoy. Mickey also had a wonderful sense of style. She was a beautiful dresser, always matching her outfits perfectly--the clothes, the purse, the jewelry. And without fail, she wore her signature red lipstick. She was quick-witted, fun to be around, and deeply loved by her family and friends. Today we honor her not only for her many accomplishments but for the joy, laughter, and love she brought into every room she entered. Mickey lived an extraordinary 104 years, and though we will miss her greatly, her spirit and her stories will live on in each of us. We give thanks for her life, for the family she built, and for the love she shared. May her memory be a blessing and a comfort to us all.